tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8837238616914884582024-02-21T06:06:17.538-08:00意儿专栏意http://www.blogger.com/profile/14781544315736024187noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-883723861691488458.post-57944221108890541892017-09-15T01:01:00.001-07:002017-09-15T01:10:16.754-07:00別让那些不懂珍惜你的人來衡量你的价值<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">今天想对每个姑娘说一句话</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"> <b style="background-color: orange;">“</b></span><b style="background-color: orange;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">別让那些不懂珍惜你的人來衡量你的价值</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";">”</span></b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">前阵子,网络上流传了一段视频,关于一个整型上瘾的年轻姑娘。这位</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";">90</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">后的姑娘曾经是一位空姐,长相算得上甜美漂亮,能当上空姐的不论是样貌或身材都不会差到哪里去吧。</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="color: magenta;">人生中遇到一个渣男,分分钟钟都会毁掉你的一生。</span></span></b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun";">说的就是这种情况。</span></div>
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<span style="color: magenta;"><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">这些姑娘一般上都比较感性多过理性,容易在爱情中盲目,碰上失败的爱情。</span></b><b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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<b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></b></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">当初小花以为交个男友后有个人宠宠自己,却不知不觉把自己变成了个爷们!一开始,小花为了维系感情而做出妥协,尽量满足男友的需求。<span style="color: magenta;"><b>后来,她逐渐变得委屈痛苦,因为感觉自己怎么努力都无法成为男友心目中的</b></span></span><span style="color: magenta;"><b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"> “</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">完美女友</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";">”</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">。</span></b></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><br /></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">小花曾经投诉男友过于苛刻,男友却说希望小花除了是个能勤俭持家的女孩,还可以帮上他事业,但是不要给他添上任何麻烦。可小花发生车祸时,男友不但没安慰关心她的情况,却第一时间责怪她给自己带来麻烦。这种要求姑娘必须陪他吃苦,他却能在姑娘最危急困难的时刻撇下她的男人,只能说明是个贪心又自私的人。可想而知,男友最后还是把小花给甩了,与另一个女孩搭上,给的理由是小花帮不上自己的事业。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="color: magenta;"><b>分手时,男友还曾说过觉得小花不错,就是不够好;小三也不错,但也有点不够好,如果两人合起来就完美了!天啊,到底要厚脸皮的什么程度才能说出这种话呢!</b></span></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">分手后的小花一度迷失自我,越来越感到自卑。自从恋爱之后,她就处处觉得自己不够优秀,因为男友一直灌输自己是个差劲女友。事实上,小花当然不完美,但也还算是个体贴专一贤惠的女友</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";">, </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">单身时亦不乏追求者。或许唯一最大的弱点就是过于温顺了,才会让渣男轻易掌控并受到言语影响。</span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"> </span><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="color: magenta;">遇到渣男虽可怕,但最可怕的就是姑娘们一辈子摆脱不了渣男的阴影。</span></span></b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "simsun";">导致她们从此在生活上做任何一件事情,都需要获得其他人的认可来肯定自己的价值。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";"> </span><span style="font-family: "simsun";">真爱你的人,总是会为自己找千万个理由,只为留在你身边。同样的,不爱你的人也会为自己找到各种借口,只为离开你。</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 宋体;">很多姑娘在谈恋爱时,似乎都会迫不及待地想为对方付出,想让对方知道自己是个好女友。</span></div>
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<span style="color: orange; font-size: large;"><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">闺蜜最后做出总结:<span style="background: white;">不要为了男朋友去一个陌生的城市,这份由女生主动踏出第一步的付出会扼杀你们之间的感情。</span></span></b><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif";">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #222222; font-size: 11pt;">你为了两人的感情努力的经营和付出,</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;">可是对方却不懂得你的付出。最后,却只换来竭尽所能的嫌弃。</span><b><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 11pt;"><span style="color: magenta;">所以,真正扼杀一段感情的元凶并不是为感情付出,而是那个并不懂得你付出的那个人。</span></span></b></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;">如果两个人本来就不适合,那付出再多也是徒劳无功。这就好像他真心喜欢你,你做什么他都可以包容;他不喜欢你,你做再多也无法感动他,反而你的小缺点还会被无限放大。我们自己本身何尝不是这样?在足够喜欢的人面前,我们经常都会愿意对方改变些许标准,包容那些非原则性的小缺点。所以如果对方不喜欢你,你所付出的背后用意和苦心,他也不会真正的懂。</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: magenta;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 11pt;">因为懂得,因为是对的人,所有的付出和爱才都有了最恰当的归宿。</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></span></strong></span></div>
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<span style="color: magenta; font-size: large;"><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 11pt;">我们经常疑惑,</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size: 11pt;">‘</span></strong><strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 11pt;">为什么我对他那么好,付出了一切,他却要跟我分手?难道是我做得不够好吗?</span></strong></span><strong><span style="font-size: 11pt;"><span style="color: magenta; font-size: large;">’</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 11pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></strong></div>
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<strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: 宋体; font-size: 11pt;"><span style="color: magenta;">不是你不够好,而你的付出给予了错的人。</span></span></strong><span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;">感情里,当你遇到对的人,他会懂你的辛苦,懂你的委屈,懂得如何珍惜或回报你。遇到不懂得你付出的人,日子久了,就会逐渐消耗你想付出的热情甚至降低你的自信。当有天你再遇到对的人时,你也许无法再百分百的付出了。</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="color: #222222;">这就是为什么很多人一开始谈恋爱时,原本是充满自信且性格活泼的,后来却变得越来越卑微甚至总觉得自己不够好。最严重的是,他们还会把另一半对待他们的差劲态度归于是自己的问题。</span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;">当你的付出被糟蹋时,你就应该收起来甚至转身走人。如果你已被糟蹋还继续付出,最后得到的必定是对方不把你看在眼里。因为你都不尊重自己的感受,别人又怎么会尊重你呢?</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 11.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">婚姻专家认为,一个幸福的婚姻,比起苦心经营,其实选对人才是最重要的!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">尤其对女人来说,最害怕的莫非是选到会出轨的男人。</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">一些男人也许是后天原因造成出轨,但也有男人是“江山易改,本性难移”。 </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">那到底什么样的男人最容易出轨的呢?只要你对照以下这几个标准,你就会知道你的男人出轨机率有多高啦!</span><br />
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根据数据表示,每周社交的男人比从来不社交的男人,出轨率要高达58%。 这也就表示,如果你的男人频繁社交,尤其又不带你一起的,有异性存在的社交越多,出轨率就越高。<br />
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经常外出过夜的男人比起常年住家的男人,也来得更加容易出轨。毕竟,在外过夜也就等于提高了他与外面女人见面偷情的机会。<br />
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高收入阶层的出轨率比起低收入阶层的还要高。也就是说,你找个有钱男人,有一半的可能性是会出轨的,事实就是这么残酷。他若不主动找女人,也会有很多女人送上门,除非他的自制能力够高足以抵抗诱惑。<br />
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在观念上来看,认为婚前可以性行为的男人,比认为不可以的,出轨率高达98%。所以,如果一个男人才刚开始与你交往就急着要求发生关系,他的出轨率就会提高。<br />
女性们,可要小心啦~ 一开始交往就急着发生关系的,八成是容易被性欲控制的男人。如此容易被性欲所控制的男人,自然出轨率就高了。<br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">5. 性观念开放</span></h2>
一个性观念比较开放的男人,相较于保守的男人,出轨也比较高。就是对于性想得比较开,有过较多性伴侣,经常想聊性话题的男人,出轨率会比较高。<br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">6. 赞成婚外恋</span></h2>
如果一个男人赞成婚外恋,又或者对于婚外恋这件事不抱有负面态度,甚至觉得无所谓的。这种价值观的男人出轨率也会很高。<br />
正所谓,一个人的言语代表着思想,思想代表着行为。<br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">7. 长时间上网聊天</span></h2>
一个男人每天网聊时间不超过3小时的话,出轨率比较低。如果每天网聊超过3小时,出轨率就会提升很多。当然,网聊并非只指上网聊天,也包括了手机微信和其他APP。<br />
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<span style="background-color: #f4cccc;">8. 有异性好友</span></h2>
虽然说拥有异性好友是很正常的事,但比起没有异性好友的男人,拥有异性好友的男人出轨率会立马上升51%。 这就是为什么男人的干妹妹干姐姐多,就容易出轨的道理。<br />
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<li>如果男人符合超过以上的6条以上,那这个男人未来有出轨的想法,是百分百的。</li>
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虽然每次看到身边的朋友交了新男友或新女友,身为好朋友的你一定会替对方感到开心。<br />
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可是,你是不是也同时会讨厌这些情侣在你面前做出的这6种行为呢?<br />
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情侣们,为了你的好朋友们,请注意不要有以下6种行为喔~<br />
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<b><span style="color: #e06666;">1. 在公众场合吵架</span></b><br />
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当她怀疑他在看别的女生时;又或是在超市场,两人无法决定该买哪个冰淇淋而开始争吵..... 没有什么比看着一对情侣吵架 还要尴尬的时刻了!劝也不是,不劝也不是。然后路人都在投以异样眼光盯着你们...<br />
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最糟糕的是,他们开始叫你当审判家,让你说出谁对谁错....<br />
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当看到情侣中的男生替女友提粉红色的包包时,虽然没有不对但还是难免会令人感到有点不舒服。难道男生真的必须替女生提粉红包包才能显示出体贴吗?拜托,女孩们,尽量别让你们的男人那样做吧!<br />
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自从两人拍拖以后,对方再也不会以‘我’来说话,反而每时每刻每秒都在说‘我们真的很喜欢这部电影.... ’ ,‘我们昨天无法一起出门.... ’ 等等分享两人的事儿。我们都明白情侣热恋中都会开始希望任何事情可以与另一半进行,可是,当你和朋友出来聚会聊天时,别忘了好好经营你的人际关系。过于秀恩爱可能会让人觉得反感哦!<br />
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我们都明白恋爱是很甜蜜的事,难免会秀点恩爱。可是你真的有必要在朋友面前不停的和另一半黏踢踢吗?我们也懂或许单身会有点寂寞,但是我们真的不需要你们来用这些亲亲,抱抱,互喂食物等亲密的行为不停放闪来提醒我们。还有,那些坐大腿,抚摸腰部这些不雅行为还是少进行吧!</div>
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又或是,两人就像连体婴一样走在前端,把我一个人留在后面看着你们的背影... 搞得好像我是电灯泡那样!拜托,如果你们想拍拖就不要再约我一起好吗。(翻白眼)<br />
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<b><span style="color: #e06666;">5. 自以为是的关心</span></b></h3>
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当情侣与朋友一起出来聚会时,一些情侣很爱拿那些单身朋友来开玩笑,真的很令人讨厌欸!什么‘ 欸 xx 你几时要交个男友啊... ’ ‘ 你看你,就叫你找个男友了就不用一个人逛街扛那么多...’ 等等。</div>
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我们知道你恋爱了,真的很替你开心,但你也没必要180度改变态度吧!别再自以为是给我们这些单身狗如何脱单的劝告之类,或时不时列出单身的坏处。</div>
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真的不要再乱介绍对象给我们了哦!没错,通过你的介绍也许会增加让我们摆脱单身的机会。但,如果你只是希望来个两对情侣的约会或纯粹是同情我们还保持单身才拼命介绍我们对象的话,拜托省省吧!</div>
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你半夜打来向我们诉苦他怎样怎样的对你不好,我们给了你意见还一起和你痛骂贱男。但隔天却看到你在朋友圈秀恩爱好像没事一样,这真的让我们困扰。身为朋友,我们自然会担忧你的感情情况,可是反反复复的分分合合真的会让会朋友们开始觉得无感,反而有种看戏的感觉。</div>
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<b><span style="color: #ea9999;">小编总结:虽然恋爱是很令人开心的事,但是跟朋友聚会时也别忘了要考虑朋友的感受哦!注意别做出这7大行为,让朋友对你开始反感。</span></b></div>
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陷入一段感情总是很甜蜜的,但是甜蜜的同时又不时让人偶尔情绪复杂。</div>
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尤其对女人来说,总是会想知道『他到底是不是真的爱我』? </div>
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而热恋中的女人更是擅长为男人寻找各种理由来掩盖事实,不轻易相信自己的直觉。</div>
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<b>如果你不信,不如对照以下这10种男人的表现吧!符合3项以上就说明其实他没那么爱你罢了!别再自欺欺人了吧!</b></div>
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相信大家都知道,相爱的每对情侣一定都是自私的。尤其对于男人而言,他们天生的占有欲会让他们想征服这个女人。所以,如果一个男人真的爱你,他一定会公开你,甚至会大方骄傲地把你介绍给他的朋友和家人。不管他是否是个低调的人,他也绝对不会低调到偶尔秀个恩爱都无法接受的地步。所以,如果一个男人以形象或工作为借口而不公开恋情,多数是因为他还想保留自己的市场,或更严重的是他其实早就脚踏两条船了。</div>
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有句话说『花钱在你身上不一定爱你,但是不花钱在你身上一定是不爱你』。虽然感情不能以金钱衡量,但是很多时候金钱就代表着对方的心意!如果一个男人把金钱看得比你重要,那他这种抠的表现不过是爱自己比较多罢了。所谓,爱一个人就是心甘情愿付出自己最舍不得的东西。即使他很穷,他如果真的爱你,也一定会舍得把一半分给你,因为没有什么比你开心对他来说是更重要的。</div>
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俗话说:『吵架最容易看出一个男人的人品』。如果两个人在争吵时,男人却与你争辩不休,硬要为了不是原则性的小事上争赢你。那不过说明,这个男人把面子看得比较重要,心胸不够宽大。虽然说,很多时候生气时会说赌气话,但往往赌气话都是累积很久的真实话。所以,如果一个男人在吵架时贬低你,这就说明在他心中,他是从来没尊重过你的。也说明这个男人的情绪管理很差,想要维持长久关系是有困难的。</div>
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如果你每次诉苦,他都感到厌烦;你有困难,他嫌你是负担,那只能说明他并没有很想融入你的生活,并非真心疼爱你。真爱你的男人会无时无刻好奇自己的女人在想些什么,不管她的喜怒哀乐他都会想了解。如果不是,那这种男人只能陪你同甘,但他不愿与你共苦。</div>
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别再相信男人以『忙』当借口了!如果一个男人告诉你忙,一整天都找不到一分钟回复你,那只是说明他没有很爱你罢了。爱你的人,再忙都会挤出时间给你,因为他真的很想你。哪怕再忙,他要是在乎就会在上个厕所时,第一时间拿出手机来信息你。不够爱你的人,只会在空闲时才想起来要回复你。因为,你在他心里不是Priority (优先)。</div>
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当他开始拿你与另一个女人做比较时,那其实是他开始不如之前那样爱你了。真正爱一个人时,在他眼里你一定是最漂亮,最好的。 而开始拿你做比较的男人,也有可能是想要出轨的征兆,女人们可要当心了。 </div>
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如果一开始他都对你百般包容,之后就不再有耐性哄你,或当你吃醋他时,他都会觉得你是在无理取闹,这只能说明他再也没那么爱你了。不够爱你,才会觉得你的小脾气很烦人。不够爱你,才会想要你乖乖的。</div>
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他如果想你,他就会想办法找你。哪怕是不顺路,也愿意开车去见你。即使聊天,他也会想办法找话题,因为他想了解你。如果他总是对你被动或表现得很懒惰,那只是因为不够爱你。所以他才不在乎你会失望,不会特别在意你的感受。</div>
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虽然说,隐私对于情侣来说是很重要,必须互相尊重的事。但如果他真的爱你,他其实不会在意你偶尔拿他手机来玩。如果他特别敏感不想让你碰触他的手机,甚至进厕所时时刻刻都带着手机,那有极大的可能说明他有不可见人的秘密隐瞒着你。</div>
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很多人经常认为,两人在一起久了,就像家人一样,便开始放松自己对另一半说话不客气,开始批评,抱怨甚至怒吼对方。甚至认为,对方应该接受自己的无理取闹和坏情绪。<br />
对待另一半的态度再也无需小心翼翼,和当初交往追求时判若两人。<br />
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久而久之,这种思想行为也渐渐变成一种坏习惯。<br />
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虽然我们总认为,两人已经是亲密关系了,又何必谈『礼貌』显得如此陌生呢?<br />
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但对我而言,经营一段感情,对于另一半给予礼貌和尊重是很重要的,也是最基本的。<br />
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我有个闺蜜,小佳,是个娇小可爱的女生。前阵子,交往了一个又聪明又高大的男生,身边的朋友们都可以感受到他们的幸福。小佳一向来都觉得自己是个脑袋不怎么聪明的女生,所以特别欣赏那种聪明又懂很多事儿的男人。<br />
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一开始,男票在追求她时,可是各种无微不至嘘寒问暖。除了每天接送她上下班,连她穿短裙搭手扶梯,男票都会站在身后保护她避免走光。小佳当时就觉得自己找到了对的那个人。所以为了他,就在交往初期搬来他的城市与他一起同居。<br />
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不过,两人的幸福可说是好景不常。小佳发现到男票不仅大男人,在对待感情的态度似乎情绪管理很差。 两人同居后,开始有很多摩擦,男票不仅限制她的社交圈,对于生活上的一些小习惯的摩擦也诸多批评,抱怨。<br />
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比如,小佳有时候进家门忘了洗脚就踏入房间,就会被男票批评。吃东西时不小心洒了饼碎饭粒也会被男票骂,说小佳就像个小孩子一样,开始嫌弃她脑袋笨。 平日,男票也极少对小佳说声『谢谢』,尽管小佳每天清晨起来为他准备便当,但男票极少对她表达感谢。相反的,如果当天便当不合胃口,男票就会开始批评小佳,说是为了让小佳变得更好。<br />
小佳总是为此不开心,因为她觉得自己满心诚意的为他做的一切好像是理所当然。<br />
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更严重的一点是,男票除了大男人,也很敏感又疑心病重。小佳发现到每次自己可能做错了一些事情而惹得男票不开心时,男票在争吵时会以难听的话语斥责她,等到她哭了之后他又会哄回她。男票说只是想让小佳体验自己受伤的感觉,当时那些只是赌气话。<br />
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甚至,男票会黑她手机电脑,就只是因为怀疑小佳与其他男人有任何暧昧。即使他偷看了她与朋友的聊天内容,清楚小佳没有暧昧,但他仍然会坚持怀疑小佳。还会时不时抢她手机来个突击检查。 虽然小佳多次向他抗议要尊重自己的隐私,但是男票会以『没有安全感』来合理化自己的行为。<br />
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之后,男票只要每一次不开心,都会开始批评小佳。甚至对小佳说<b><span style="color: magenta;">『她只是他的绊脚石』,『她配不起他』,『他可以随时找到一个更好的女人』</span></b>等等。<br />
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男票总是认为小佳笨,不比他优秀。所以她给予他的意见都完全没有说服力。<br />
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这些话都深深的伤害了小佳的心。原来,她在他心中是如此的可有可无。当小佳在人生地不熟的城市里遇到生活上的一些小麻烦时,她开始不敢让男票知道甚至无法找任何朋友帮忙(因为男票不喜欢),因为害怕男票觉得她又给自己添麻烦了,是个麻烦鬼。 小佳心里觉得既委屈又难过.....<br />
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每一次的争吵,即使不是小佳的错,小佳也会低头哄回男票。男票从来不会认为自己有问题更不会对小佳说句『抱歉』。<br />
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两人的矛盾日渐加深,甚至小佳有一次胃疼呕吐了,男票当时不但没安慰她,反而站在一旁滑手机责备她不会照顾好自己,以后如何当他老婆?当时的小佳因为害怕失去他而只能默默承受委屈。<br />
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所以,姑娘们,<b><span style="color: magenta;">在吵架时最容易看出一个男人的人品</span></b>。如果一个男人在吵架时无法控制自己的情绪,甚至会看不起自己的另一半,那姑娘们可要赶紧清醒离开渣男!<span style="color: magenta;">他如果现在不会尊重你,婚姻之后更加不会尊重你!</span><br />
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庆幸的是,小佳知道其实男票一直以来对待自己的态度是不正确,不健康的。只不过是她当时太在乎他不舍得所以宁愿自欺欺人罢了....<br />
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<span style="color: magenta;"><b>在感情里, 没有人喜欢被自己的爱人否定</b>。</span> 当她的热情和努力一次次的碰壁被你泼冷水时,她的自信心就会被打击。<br />
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我们总是不知觉得寸进尺。当另一半容忍我们的脾气时,我们开始觉得是理所当然,她既然容忍了一次,她就应该可以再容忍第二次...... 我们就开始变得不尊重对方,不把对方的感受放在眼里。<br />
<b><span style="background-color: white; color: magenta;">我们总是对待陌生人以礼相待对外人殷勤,却忘了温柔对待自己的另一半。</span></b><br />
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所以,当你在对待另一半时,别忘了平日里多给对方赞美,也别吝啬在亲朋好友面前称赞她,让她知道你又多珍惜重视她!<br />
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两人产生矛盾时,如果你想给予劝告,可以用『鼓励』的方式或是『和善的语气』来表达意见,让她更加容易接受你的好意。而不是恶言相对,或说出伤人自尊的话。<br />
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在对方为你付出的时候,别忘了说句『谢谢』,『辛苦你了』。让另一半知道她的付出和努力是有被珍惜的,这样她才会有信心并乐意为你做得更多。这无疑也是一种智慧。<br />
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<span style="color: magenta;"><b>如果你的一句『谢谢』,『鼓励』和『赞美』可以让她高兴变得更有自信,那为什么你如此吝啬不说出来呢?</b></span><br />
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还有, 在做错事情时,很多人总是拉不下脸来道歉。其实,在感情里吵架时,愿意先低头道歉不代表是你输了或一定是你的错,只是你比较愿意珍惜感情。否则,你赢了面子,却输了感情,多不值得啊!<br />
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因此,在你吵架想骂人前,先想想如果你是对方听了这些话会觉得如何?做到<b><span style="color: magenta;">『将心比心』</span><span style="color: magenta;">,而不是自私的顾虑自己的感受罢了。</span></b><br />
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学会控制的自己情绪,是成为一个成熟的伴侣的其中一个条件。要懂得谦虚自己,不自我中心,不把另一半的包容付出当作理所当然。<span style="color: magenta;"><b>要记得,你要争得的不是输赢,而是你的幸福。</b></span><br />
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除了找到那个懂得礼貌和尊重我们的伴侣,也别忘了让我们自己成为这样的好伴侣。<br />
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<span style="color: #e69138;">一段感情里,能相遇不容易,相处更不容易。 尤其感情不是属于一个人的事,而是需要双方互相用心经营,方能结果。所以,在谈恋爱时其实是很需要智慧的,但你觉得自己是个有智慧的另一半吗?</span></h2>
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感情里有很多禁忌,其中最大的禁忌便是<span style="color: magenta;"><i>『提分手』</i></span>。很多情侣中,总是会有其中一方在每一次的争吵时不停提分手。</div>
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<span style="color: magenta;">第一次闹脾气提分手,对方一定会挽留,因为还是很爱你的。但你会觉得这招似乎有效,同时也开始享受着被挽留的一种优越感。</span>或者,你因为对方不小心伤了你的心,所以你要用这招更狠的方法来让对方感受。当对方开始挽留你时,你会产生某种赢了的感觉,平衡了你所不平衡的心。而这种报复心态往往最后只会造成恶性循环。</div>
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<span style="color: magenta;">第二次再提分手,对方又再次挽留。你开始觉得对方根本离不开你,所以你觉得吃定对方了。反正只要他/她不顺我心意,我就闹分手直到他/她顺从我为止,反正他/她又离不开我。</span></div>
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<span style="color: magenta;">所以,渐渐的,分手变成你的筹码。只要每一次不顺心,你便会以『那我们分手啊』来威胁对方。 而你也不会再像之前那样细心呵护着他/她,不管他/她哭得再稀里哗啦,你也不会再心疼,你也不会再害怕失去他/她。因为你觉得你已经完全掌控了对方,对方就该跟着你的方式来相处啊。</span></div>
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对方一开始会在想『<i>自己是不是做错了什么</i>』?所以他/她会反省自己,改变自己。但接连不断的『提分手』之后,对方会逐渐反感并开始保护起自己,因为他/她会开始认为你并不注重这段感情,你随时会离开自己,所以他/她会逐渐开始保护自己,为自己预备好最糟糕的那天的到来。</div>
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<span style="color: #f1c232;">就好像我有一个朋友,伟亦,在几个月前便结束了一段与女友2年的感情。他平时脾气就不太好有点大男人,一点小事就对女友发脾气。他女友人长得挺可爱的,人缘甚好,看起来也挺爱他的。</span></div>
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<span style="color: #f1c232;">分手后的伟亦难过了一段时间,也对我说两个人在一起时他经常对她发脾气,也时常提分手,每一次都是她哄回他的。直到有一次,他再次提分手时,她毅然决然的同意了,这时他才知道大事情了。不管他怎么挽留,对方似乎已经变了心。 这遭遇也狠狠给了他一次很好的成长。</span></div>
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『提分手』这个禁忌很容易被养成一种坏习惯。<span style="color: magenta;">你会开始习惯于用『分手』来沟通</span>。每一次的争吵,你没有更多耐心去好好的谈,你也不想谈,反正用『分手』就能解决得到自己想要的结果。那我干嘛还浪费时间去在乎他/她的感受,了解他/她的想法呢?</div>
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<span style="color: magenta;">你能够以分手为『筹码』,还不是仗着对方喜欢你啊?</span>你就仗着人家喜欢你,所以你才能一副无所谓的样子,威胁人家让人家流泪。但当对方有一天心灰意冷时,他/她就真的会放手了。</div>
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所以,<span style="color: magenta;">『提分手』这个坏毛病,其实说穿了只是让对方预备好离开自己,是最愚蠢最幼稚的沟通方法。</span>如果你注重一段感情,应该把话好好说出来沟通。不管再怎么生气,都应该携手一起面对解决彼此的矛盾,而不是轻易提分手。你必须意识到,两个人本来就是不同的个体,没有人是完美的,默契也是需要培养出来的。所以,当两个人有意见分歧时,应该冷静下来沟通并一起寻找双赢的方法来解决。</div>
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对方最后会坚决同意分手,不是因为她不再爱你,而是因为已经无法再承受所累积起来的伤害。 </div>
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如果真心的爱对方,又怎么舍得说出伤害对方的话呢?当你每一次提分手时,你可知道他/她的内心里是在想着原来自己在你心中是『可有可无』的一个人,随时都可以『丢掉』的人,是多么的令人难过吗?</div>
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所以说,恋爱不但需要耐心和宽容,更多的是智慧。<span style="color: magenta;">我们总是习惯对陌生人客气有礼貌,却把最坏的脾气留给最亲近的人。殊不知,正因为对方爱我们,所以才会被我们恶毒的话语伤害更大。</span>如果不爱你,你又怎么伤害得了他/她呢?</div>
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学习当个有智慧的伴侣吧!时时刻刻保持宽容的心,愉快的心情,互相为对方着想一起面对解决困难,这样才能把爱经营好。如此,幸福才会靠得更近。:)</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">当一个女子爱上一个男子,就会变得很低很低,低到尘埃里去。而现在的我,仿佛已经低到比尘埃更远的地方去了。<span style="box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 1.42857;">这情景是不是似曾相似?你是不是也曾经不由自主的爱一个人爱到尘埃里呢?</span></span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">几个月前,认识了一个女孩叫茵茵。 娇小,甜美, 可爱。这大概是我给予她的形容词。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">只是当我知道她年龄大过我三年时,没错,25岁,我还不禁吓了一跳,童颜就是好啊。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">她说,她和前任不久前分手了,前任觉得她外表太可爱,分手后很快就交了一个外型成熟刘海中分的女孩。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">她问我,那男的明明喜欢的是成熟类型女孩,为什么还偏要招惹她啊?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">我告诉她,还好你们分手了。 </span></div>
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这情景我也遭遇过。 就在五年前, 我18, 他25。</div>
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我原本就有点婴儿肥,所以常常被误以为是未成年。 他,就是长得比实际年龄成熟就是了。</div>
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所以交往初期,他就开始嫌弃我长得太可爱,要我打扮成熟点配合他。</div>
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甚至要我打工买名牌打扮自己,好让他带出去有面子。</div>
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因为很喜欢他,所以我就尝试打扮得成熟点。可是再浓厚的妆也遮不住我稚气的脸蛋。 </div>
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我开始变得很自卑,总觉得自己配不上他。 </div>
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我努力想成为他喜欢的样子,可最后我发现,他还是出轨了。 </div>
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他甚至在分手前说,宁愿选择一个爱钱的女人,也不愿选择一个单纯的女人。 </div>
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所以,分手后我一度迷失自己。我该当什么样的女孩? 真的要当坏女孩才会惹人爱吗? 可是我实在做不到。 </div>
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最后的最后,我清醒了。 </div>
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反省自己为何改变自己取悦他人,我明知道对的爱情不需要这样。 </div>
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他,只不过爱的是他自己想象的你而已。</div>
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他,只不过是想把你改变成他心目中的女神模样。 </div>
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他,说穿了,就是不够爱你。 你也许只是个代替品或是他的备胎而已。 </div>
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一段美好的爱情,应该会提升彼此让彼此变得更好,而不是让对方越来越自卑。 </div>
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一段美好的爱情,应该包含了 鼓励和支持,让你自由做自己。然后他,就是爱这样的你,原本的你。 </div>
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你不是最完美的,但在他眼里,这样的你却是最完美的。 </div>
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两个人能够做自己,然后喜欢真实的彼此, 这样自然的爱情 不是最好的模样吗? </div>
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时时刻刻担心自己不够好,生怕他不开心,生怕他生气,因为害怕他会离开自己,因为.... 潜意识里知道他真的会离开。 </div>
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即使自己很受伤,却因为太在乎付出太多所以不舍得放手。 </div>
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然后就变成他支配你,你只能顺从他;你若不顺从便会失去他。</div>
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如果他不爱你, 任何事情都能是借口, 他要的不过是 「分手」。 </div>
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所以何必爱他爱得这么卑微, 连旁人都把你的委屈看得一清二楚?</div>
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你却还在沉醉于自己制造的悲剧爱情里?</div>
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所以女孩们,请对自己狠心点。 不该爱的人就狠心离开他。 爱错了人,赶紧放手。 </div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">来到咖啡店坐下来,看见这个女人眉头紧蹙,似乎是有心事。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">我猜想她应该是和多年的男友感情又出现问题了吧!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">没想到,我又猜对了。小欣一脸哭腔说她又抓到她男友再次和别的女孩搞上了。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">这…应该是第五次了吧!只不过每一次小欣又心软原谅了他。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">更令人愤怒的是,这次不止暧昧不清,还想光明正大的和小三在一起。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">天啊,连我听到都替小欣感到愤愤不平。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">这善良单纯的女人到底前世造了什么孽啊会遇上这种极品男。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">这让我想起就好像我小区里一个不无正当的老伯一样,一次又一次的拿了</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">总是会不由自主的奉献一切,希望对方开心。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">但也往往会有很多人在爱情里盲目,让自己活受罪。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">她们明明知道自己该清醒,却该死地舍不得,放不下,选择自欺欺人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">甚至希望对方有一天会为自己而改变。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">但亲爱的, 你无法改变一个人,除非他爱你,他便愿意为你改变。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">一段健康的爱情应该是平衡的,彼此愿意付出,彼此懂得珍惜。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">一段美好的爱情不需要特意去讨好对方,更不是一昧的迁就对方。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">真正爱你的他并不会因为你说‘不’而觉得你的魅力减少了,或是不爱你了,</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">反而他会更加爱你,因为他在乎你,所以他尊重你的感受。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">但往往很多人在遇到另一半对自己不忠时,</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">却宁愿选择睁一只闭一只眼,自欺欺人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">认为自己已经花费太多青春在他身上,不甘心付出了一切却什么也没得到而选择继续在一起。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">感情里最害怕的就是这六个字‘不甘心,输不起’。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">如果你明明知道不合适,你还要恣意为之,结果只能从不甘心、输不起,到最后的输得更惨、伤的更深。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">而结果无非就是再一次的背叛,再一次对自己的羞辱。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">当你在感情里是非黑白都不分时,那对方更加不会尊重你。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">当你一次又一次地降低自己的底线时,对方便认为你受得起更大的伤害。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">最后,你只能抱怨为什么自己真心付出了一切,他却不珍惜你呢!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">所以,不要再在感情里当烂好人了!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">如果你都不尊重自己,又怎么期待对方尊重自己呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">被骗一次,是对方的耻辱;被骗第二次便是自己的耻辱。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">不要好了伤疤忘了疼,唯有尊重自己受过的伤,受过的欺骗和苦,</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">那才是真正的尊重自己。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">该有的底线就要有!如果你都不尊重神圣爱情里最起码的忠诚,</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">那忠诚最终将抛弃你。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">对于伤害自己的人的原谅,一次叫同情,两次叫包容,三次叫犯贱。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">而人到底要犯贱到什么地步让对方一次又一次的羞辱自己呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">这个现象我已经发现了很久了。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">那就是我们的社会常常视离婚过的女人为没价值的女人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">30岁还没结婚的女性常常被社会标签成<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">"剩女"、"嫁不出"、"没人要"</span>。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">至于离婚过的女人呢? 前阵子在玩论坛的时候,一位离婚女性网友开帖子问她离婚了,是不是很难再找第二春?男人是不是都没办法接受离婚过的女人,甚至还是一个带着孩子的离婚女人?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">哇,看看底下的留言几乎都是男网友的回复。 什么<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">"确实是很难再找第二春"、"二手货"、"谁要当便宜爸爸"、"你只能找和你一样离婚过的男人"</span> 等等一些很难听负面的留言。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">这社会怎么了? 谁规定女人30一定要结婚?谁又规定离婚过的女人没资格再寻找属于自己的幸福? </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">这种扭曲的腐朽的男权思想价值观让社会都觉得女人到了30就该结婚,甚至让女人觉得离婚了就贬值了。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">这种男权价值观一直在洗脑社会,让大家觉得女人都是为了男人而活才有价值,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">女人只有在男人的需要感中才能找到自己的存在感和价值。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">所以,女人是为了男人而活,是为了取悦男人的。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">所以,如果有一个女人不遵从这个价值体系,你就会被社会排挤,视为异端,甚至身边人老是想要矫正你的价值观,让你感觉自己是错的。 </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">而我也发现到我们的女性在维护自己的女权主义方面是比较弱的。 </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">因为这种扭曲的男权思想充斥于社会,仿佛告诉大家这才是正确的,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cee7f7; box-sizing: border-box; color: blue;">所以才会导致一些离婚女人担心离婚后会贬值而甘愿屈就于不健康的婚姻关系里。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">但亲爱的姐妹们, 你们不是为了男人而活, 你们应该为了自己而活! </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">如果明明知道自己处于一段不健康的婚姻关系, 却因为害怕被社会排挤害怕被人议论而选择继续这种婚姻,那才是你人生中最可悲的事情!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">因为最后你继续的不幸福,其实也没人会在意你,也会照样议论你的不幸婚姻。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">但是,你有没有想过,其实你可以放弃错的婚姻选择快乐的单身?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; font-weight: bold;">唯有放开错的,才能迎接对的幸福。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; font-weight: bold;">唯有你内心强大,认为自己有资格再寻找幸福,勇敢地把自私的男权思想踩在脚底下,认清自己的价值并创造属于自己的人生价值,你才会有机会主宰自己的人生和幸福!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">认清自己独一无二的价值观,你才可以去选择你要不要男人甚至要什么样的男人;而不是把自己供上去让男人来选择你。</span> </div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #731842;">甚至,我也发现到这种男权思想很喜欢把青春塑造成是女人唯一的价值,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #731842;">唯有青春的女人才有资格获得幸福;而熟女们则没有选择幸福的权利,能找到男人就已经很好了?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #731842;">这不过是男人因自私而创造出的思想而已,好绑架女人们任男人摆布。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #731842;">可怕的是,很多女性居然认同这种思想。 亲爱的,如果你认为年轻才配人爱,那是不是哪天你老了被甩了也是活该呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 1.42857;">我是说西方男人不介意这种年龄或离婚身份这些表面肤浅的条件是让我特别欣赏的。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">虽然有时会感觉两人外表不搭,但这些女人是有多强大才能拴住这么优秀的男人呢甚至比她们还年轻的男人?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">这种女人一定是内心很强大的。可见的是西方女人在于维护自己女权方面还是比较强的。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">看看伊能静, 贾静雯,王菲这些都是没有因为自己离婚过而认为自己不配再次拥有幸福的女人。 </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00; font-weight: bold;">她们不认为自己离婚过就贬值了,反而努力让自己变得更好更活力,</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00; font-weight: bold;">所以,我很欣赏那些能够跳出扭曲的社会规则,不害怕被扭曲的思想遗弃而建立起自己的规则,活在属于自己的价值坐标里,活出真正的自我的女人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00;">所以,各位女性,请你们为了自己而活!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00;">打扮不是为了男人,而是为了取悦自己。独立不是为了能遇见更好的男人,而是让自己快乐。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00;">你可以把握选择权过自己想要的生活,而不是让出选择权去取悦别人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00;">你的价值在于你认为自己有这种价值, 而不是把自己的价值附属在别人身上! </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cec6ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">忘了说,谁说30是剩女呢?现在流行的是<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">"盛女"</span>! 何为盛女,就是那些30岁以上却还在单身的女人,别误会,她们单身不是嫁不出,她们只是认为婚姻不是决定自己人生价值的唯一因素,盛女们都是充满自信,反而以自己随着年龄智慧不断增长而感到自豪。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cec6ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">因此,是"剩女"还是"盛女", 完全由女人你自己来决定!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cec6ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: red;">所以各位女性同胞,请团结起来,活出自我,创造属于女人独一无二的价值。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">我常常发现到不管是家长还是男人都喜欢要求女人要『乖』。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">从小我们就被教育要乖,大家总把乖描述成一种美好。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">但如果『乖』指的是无条件服从,听话,不犯错,这样真的对自己好吗?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">在我的观察里,大多数乖的女人都不会太幸福,反而容易被男人伤害。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">而这些『乖女孩』一般都无主见,没自信,不敢say NO, 害怕得罪人,老是把别人的过错揽在自己身上,觉得自己总是不够好 等等....</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">这位妇女总是对家庭照顾得无微不至,可以说是个伟大的妈妈和老婆。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">但在我眼里,我一点都不欣赏这种伟大。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">因为在这个伟大的代价背后,我看到的是她的『委屈』, 『抱怨』和『懦弱』。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">每次出街,丈夫总是让她提着大包小包屁颠颠跟着他的背后,仿佛就是主人和仆人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">我也多次看见丈夫对妇女语气容易不耐烦,充满命令的语调。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">而如果妇女不遵从,丈夫就会骂她几句。而只要丈夫凶一点,妇女就乖乖听话了。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">甚至如果妇女有时受不了了想反击,但我可以从她的语气里听见她的害怕。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">最后,当然她的生气还是起不了多大的作用。因为她的底线丈夫早就一清二楚,那就是- 好欺负。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">而这种家庭相处模式自然会为孩子起了影响,这自然对孩子是不健康的。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">孩子也会开始学习这种模式,没有判断力或还未思想独立的孩子便可能觉得『只要凶,女生就会怕我乖乖听话』。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">也许有人说如果妇女不这样搞不好就无法在一起这么久了。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta; line-height: 28.5714px;">嗯没错。我认同婚姻必须妥协退让。但绝对不是单方面,而应该是互相。但对某些乖女人来说,撇开被支配的那部分来说,她们还是有快乐的。只是,她们的喜怒哀乐完全是被另一半支配着而已,而不是掌握在自己的手里。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffc69c; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">你希望你的女儿幸福吗?是不是其实你也希望她可以被她的丈夫尊重,而不是只能服从,配合对方,甚至不敢有自己的感受和想法?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffc69c; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 28.5714px;">我相信没有一个父母愿意看到自己的女儿有一天晚上躲在被单里哭泣责问自己哪里做错了,可是事实上自己却没有错。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">同样的,在感情里,这种『乖女孩』一般都是对另一半忍气吞声,委曲求全。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">甚至她们明知道自己处于一段不健康,错的感情当中,她们还是不敢离开。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">她们往往是弱势的那一方,只能被支配,她们的话也往往没有影响力不会被重视。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">直到最后才问『为什么我付出了那么多却得不到他的爱?』</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">如果一个人真的爱你,他会让你去当你最美好的自己,他会视你的感受多过自己,而不是『你乖,他才会爱你』。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">而这些乖女孩总是觉得自己不是好女人,配不上对方,而从来没想过其实对方不是个好男人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">这种女孩一般不敢违逆,不敢拒绝,不敢捍卫自己的权益。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">她们根本不敢违抗社会和家庭的期望,因为她们从小就被教育要乖,被设了一个框框,而只要她们跨过那个框框,就会被别人认为是叛逆,而她们也会觉得自己是叛逆。因此她们最容易不幸福。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">她们只能做别人期望她们做的事情,而无法真心自由的去做自己想做的事情,想做的自己。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">而那些有自己想法,独立有个性的女生,甚至比较自私的女生,她们反而往往比较幸福。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c9c94; line-height: 28.5714px;">因为她们非常清楚,她们的幸福是自己把握的,而不是押注在别人身上。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">所以,这社会很可悲的是,女性的权益一直被欺压,没被放在眼里。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">因为从古代开始,女人就是被教育要遵守,听话不能违抗命令。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">所以在遇到女性权益被侵犯的事情时,很多家庭往往为了面子而叫女生保持沉默。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">而如果女人反抗想为自己讨回公道的话,大家会觉得她很叛逆在无理取闹,为什么要搞大事情?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">也因为怕被人取笑,歧视而她们最后选择默默承受伤害。最后,当然是造成坏人得寸进寸,越来越嚣张。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">但你有病吗?你根本没错啊。为什么你要因为自己受伤害而觉得丢脸?该觉得丢脸的是那些坏人啊。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: blue; line-height: 28.5714px;">为什么一个女生因为穿得短和性感就活该被强奸吗?NO,就算一个女生穿得性感,强奸本来就是犯罪的行为。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">这社会应该教育更多人怎么控制自己的思想,而不是去要求别人控制自己来合理化自己抗诱惑的能力太低的事实。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">好比如当一个女生的裸照被黑客恶意散播时,大家会怪的是女生活该,谁让她要拍这些东西呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">对,没错。她确实做了我们认为都危险的事。但是,是谁允许我们去侵犯别人的隐私的?那个真正缺德的人不应该是侵犯她隐私的黑客吗?为什么老是要别人来管好自己,而不是要求自己管好自己?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">这世上存在着很多喜欢把把责任推在别人身上并合理化自己错误行为的人。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">而如果一个女人太乖,她们往往就会变成悲剧的受害者。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363; line-height: 28.5714px;">最可悲的是,当一个悲剧发生时,很多人反而怪甚至取笑受害者,继而让坏人觉得自己是对的。所以这些人,无疑就是罪犯的帮凶。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">我很庆幸我从小不是个大人眼里的『乖女孩』。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">我遇到不公平的事,我会说出我的感受。我也曾经是个家暴的受害者。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">小时候因为事情没那么严重,所以我发现到家庭似乎没重视这个问题。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">直到长大后我再次被家暴时,我没再选择沉默了。我选择说出来,也许一些人还是认为家丑不可外扬,</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">而我也为自己做了个决定,我也没选择原谅。但我亦不会为了伤害我的人而拒绝我未来生活里的每个幸福的可能性。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">很多人叫我不要计较,算了吧,原谅吧。但我没这么做。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">因为对我而言,我不是圣人,我受的委屈和伤害只有我自己懂。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">而我相信,如果我再次沉默当没事发生,一段时间后,大家就会认为我没事,坏人又会开始伤害我。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">谁会又介意我下一次可能受到的伤害呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">当你受伤害时,大家只会同情你一阵子,因为每个人都有自己的生活要忙。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">所以既然你清楚自己的伤,你又何必去委屈自己这么在意别人的感受呢?你受伤时,别人可没这么在乎过你啊。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">你的父母,你的老公,你的上司只是『怕麻烦』,所以要你『乖』。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">你乖乖听话之后,别人不麻烦,但你却损失了自己的利益。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">最后别人都开心了,而你就一无所有。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff; line-height: 28.5714px;">所以,以后我也不会告诉我的女儿要当个乖女孩,要乖乖听话才会幸福才会有男人要这种话。</span></div>
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在踏入社会后,每天重复乏味又繁忙的工作,令人闹心的感情等等,和一些生活上的小问题。这些事情似乎渐渐的会令我们失去自我,无能为力的留在原地无法改变什么。这种感觉超无奈吧?才知道,现实和理想是如此比登天还难。</div>
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记住以下这10种方法,当你感到对生活很累时,就照着这10种方法做吧!</div>
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你必须意识到这世上没有任何人是完美的。所以,请接纳自己表面上的缺点并以它为傲,而不是隐藏它。学习爱真实的自己,并勇敢去爱那些对大家来说不够完美的缺点。</div>
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当你觉得自己开始颓废或无法前进时,重新培养新的兴趣或进行新的活动来获得能量吧!勇敢去做你一直想做却没做的事, 别拒绝新机会或新想法。不停的扩大自己的接受度吧!</div>
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不管生活上发生什么困难,请永远别放弃自己。要知道,失败和被拒绝是人生中的必经阶段。下一次被拒绝时,请把它当作这是你的机会以证明你下次会做得更好。 </div>
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不管是在职场上犯错,或是不小心说错话,这一切已经发生并过去了。既然你无法改变事实,那就没必要自责。与其自责,不如反省并避免错误再一次发生。</div>
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重新评估你的自我价值吧!如果你现在与一个不懂得尊重你的伴侣在一起,问问自己你是否还想继续下去。 如果你现在的工作真的让你不快乐,问问自己这真的是你要的生活吗?花点时间搞清楚你想要什么,然后采取行动改变现状朝你的目标努力,并成为你想要的样子。</div>
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如果你是个工作狂,不如放松下来花点时间去旅游吧。当你发现自己除了窝在床上煲剧且无所事事,不如走出屋内散步呼吸新鲜空气吧!在工作和玩乐之间,寻找一个平衡点。你的人生就那么一次,你应该学会平衡和享受。</div>
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有时候当你开始迷失自我时,和好久不见的老朋友见上一面是好事来的。花时间与那些你爱的人并充满热情的人一起相处吧!他们可以时时刻刻让你知道最好的生活就是放心去享受每个时刻,哪怕是眼前的一杯咖啡。</div>
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如果你身边时常有那些一直给你带来负面情绪的朋友,比如:在你需要鼓励时泼你冷水,时时刻刻批评你让你觉得自己不够好。向这种朋友说『掰掰』吧!离开他们,你会发现你的生活更美好。</div>
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多为自己留点时间来独处吧!哪怕是一个人,也要吃顿好的。给自己买杯暖暖的咖啡,享受自己的空间。 做你想做的事情,独处其实是一种自由。</div>
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偶尔到新地方旅行,开阔自己的心胸和眼界。从繁忙的时间表抽出一点时间好好的来个长途旅游。 来到陌生的美丽城市会让你知道,之前的烦恼都不算什么。因为这世界还有很多更美好的事情在等着你去发掘。</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #6badde;">看完这10条,以后感到烦恼无助时,就可以鼓励自己拉!</span></h2>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #6badde;">记得哦,生活本来就不容易,但只要你心态健康正确,你也会成为幸福美好的人~</span></h2>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">有句话说,男人来自地球,女人来自火星。因此,别指望男人会读懂女人的心思。因为这两个不同星球的人类可是思维差个七八公里远,甚至更远…</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">尤其男人一般比较理智,女人比较感性。因此,你是不是常常与另一半为了芝麻绿豆的事情争吵呢?两人在相处时总是会因为无法理解对方的做法而产生种种误会,导致感情愈来愈冷淡。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">男:</span> 一般男生面对这种情况,都会认为女生无理取闹。甚至大男人性格的男友一定认为为什么自己得低头哄她?这样不就代表是自己的错了吗?</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">女:</span>其实很多时候,女生都知道是自己不对的,只是她们还是希望男友可以哄自己让着自己。因此,哄她不代表是男生输了或是男生的错。如果不是她的错,那她闹脾气其实也不过是过于在乎你需要你的关注。这种情况下,身为男友的你就更应该哄,因为如果你不哄,她就会更加生气难过,认为你不在乎她。所以,聪明的男人会哄女生,不会和她一般较劲。</div>
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(虽然如此,小编在这里还是要奉劝各位女生们,千万不要动不动就闹脾气。因为哄人是一件很累的差事。如果真的是自己的错,那就得改,不要理所当然让爱你的他长期忍受你的臭脾气。偶尔闹脾气很可爱,经常无理取闹就很可恶!)</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">男:</span>为什么总是花我的钱?是不是不爱我?你是不是物质拜金女啊?</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">女:</span> 其实在某个程度上,男人花钱在女人身上确实可以证明他爱她。 所以,女生都会希望自己的男人会愿意花钱在自己身上,即使她自己有那个能力负担自己。各位男士请看清楚, 女生要的是那份<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">『心意』</span>- 你<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">『愿意』『舍得』</span>为她花钱的这份心思。<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff9c00;">(**当然前提是她真的不是拜金女或总是对你有无理要求啦…)</span> </div>
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假如你平日里非常节俭,但你愿意舍得买块稍微贵点的蛋糕给她,让她感受到你的那份心意,她就会很开心了。</div>
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有时侯,女生还会特地考验男生,想知道他会不会愿意为自己花钱。但当男生愿意时,女生是不会真的让他花钱的,因为她会体谅他的经济状况。<<<</div>
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所以,男生们看清楚了吗?女生其实在乎的是你的那份心意。</div>
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也许,这样会令人觉得很幼稚,但有句话说,爱一个人就是把你最不舍得的东西给对方。所以,如果一个男人可以把钱看得比自己的女人重要,那只能说明,他比较爱自己,多过爱你啦。</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">男:</span>为什么你总是让我主动?我也很累诶~</div>
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二, 有时候女生希望男生主动为自己做些小事情,而绝对不是等她告诉你了你才去做。因为这样会让她觉得你没有诚意不够细心。</div>
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(但小编还是想说,女生千万别完全被动,只让男生主动。也要偶尔适当的让他知道你是爱他的哦!也要记住,不要任何事情都让对方猜测你的心思,成熟的女人应该把想法表达出来。)</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">男:</span>你说太多话了?老是说废话诶…任何小事都要分享不觉得烦吗?</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: magenta;">女:</span>女人最爱倾诉,当女人有事没事跟你分享喜怒哀乐时,说明她是真的喜欢你,所以才会希望你了解关于她的一切。她会希望你是那个跟她聊得来的人,既能成为伴侣又同时可以像好朋友一样相处,无所不谈。她会分享她同事朋友发生的趣事给你,即使与她无关,但这么做只是为了能和你聊天。所以,如果你能够让一个女人沉默,那你也就走到了后悔边缘。</div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">男生,也别总是跟女生较劲。这些看似无理取闹的背后,其实也不过是她想知道你是否在乎她。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">当然,女生的无理取闹也该有个限度。毕竟,如果你爱他,就不该任意消耗他对你的爱。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">在一段恋爱中, 一对情侣偶尔吵架,意见不合斗斗嘴,这都是在所难免的。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">换句话说, 哪有不吵架的情侣呢? </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">尤其,身边那位一直陪着你吵架却始终没选择离开的人才是真的爱你吧!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">在女人耍任性吵架时,很多男人都会责怪她无理取闹。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">但我想对男人说的是,再通情达理的女人,也会有吃醋任性的时候。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #ffe7ce; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e76363;">如果你想要找个不吃醋不会闹的女人, 那是因为她根本不爱你! 如果有,那这个女人就是你的母亲。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b; line-height: 1.42857;">所以,当两人在吵架时,很多时候男人都不愿意低头哄 总是把女人都快给气死了。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">尤其大男人主义的男人, 认为哄自己的女人是件很丢脸的事情。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">哪怕是他自己的错,可为了顾及面子以及因为深埋心里的自卑导致的极度自尊,令他认为给女人道歉,是一种软弱的表现。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">而女人若想跟这种男人交往,就必须拥有强大的慈爱和包容心,否则会很累很苦。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">其实,哄女人有什么难的呢? 一个男人如果连一个女人都哄不了,那还如何成就大事呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">所谓在社会里混,不就是要<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">「能屈能伸」</span>,才能生存得更久!</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">在感情里也一样, 你把她哄笑了不就没事了?只要她不是个不可理喻的女人,她一定会知道是自己是错,会改过的。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">最怕的是男人不但不哄,就连自己把女人惹怒了都还不自知~</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">有时候女人任性只不过是想知道你愿不愿意让着她,女人需要的是男人的呵护,若你非得赌着一口气,跟她争个输赢,到头来只会自讨苦吃。 </span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #a54a7b;">而且,女人很多时候只是对自己喜欢的人任性,因为潜意识觉得对方不会离开,能够给到她安全感。所以,如果只是为了小事争吵,何必跟她一般计较呢?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">吵架归吵架。在感情里除了看这个男人在吵架时对你态度,还有一点就是 「吵架后见品性」。 如果吵架后, 连哄一下都不哄,甚至还要跟你纠缠不休,得理不饶人,那这只能说明这男人的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: bold;">人生格局小,所以智识眼界就小,凡事爱斤斤计较</span>。他把自己的面子看得比你们的感情还要大。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">如此,爱斤斤计较的男人又能在外面创出什么大业呢?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">一个爷们,就该在外面呼风唤雨充满威严,在家里也能征服得了女人,让女人心甘情愿不愿离开你。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #e7d6de; box-sizing: border-box; color: #3984c6;">俗语说,女人喜欢被哄,男人喜欢被捧。爱面子每个人都爱,但能放下面子有多少人能做得到呢?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">就像我的同事,小歪。她男友就是典型的大男人主义。小歪个性比较大咧咧,很多时候容易因为小事就被男友批评。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">因此,两人之间也更容易产生摩擦。每一次吵架,男友都是占上风拥有优越感,即使有时候是男友不对,也会觉得是小歪的错。所以,他就会以高尚者的姿态与差劲的语气去指责小歪,也从不低头哄,反而是抓着小事情不放过。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">譬如: 有次小歪看见男友温柔的对女同事谈电话,就有点小别扭,所以她就保持沉默。但之后,发现到原来这只是一场误会,而男友却始终不肯哄哄,反而直接指责小歪摆脸色。小歪觉得,即使是一场误会,但她有点小别扭也不过是因为太在乎男友,又不是大吵大闹。为什么男友就不能放下面子来哄一哄她呢?只要他说几句好话哄一哄并说明她误会了,她也就会马上释怀了。但由于男友始终不肯哄反而还怪罪她,就让她更加生气委屈。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">每次吵架,小歪一开始还会顶嘴尝试好好的沟通;但日子久了,小歪也不再争辩了,因为她知道即使再怎么争辩,他始终还是觉得自己是对的。而男友也从来不曾尝试主动和好。反倒还要小歪去向他道歉,所以她总是满肚子的委屈。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #9c00ff;">最后,长期下来小歪受不了也就选择离开了这位男友。</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">聪明的男人才不会跟女人较劲,因为他宁愿把精神花在更重要的事情上,也不愿浪费在为小事纠缠不休而破坏彼此的感情。反正哄哄就没事了,女人就是矫情面子薄嘛,那我一个大男人何必如此计较?</span></div>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">当女人在闹脾气时,聪明的男人绝对不会接招。他绝对不会在对方的情绪线上跑,被对方的情绪给牵引。</span></h2>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">反而会心平气和的和她沟通,安抚情绪再说道理。往往这样反而意见更容易被她接受!</span></h2>
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<span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #e79c9c;">当然,男人的大度也不是没限度的,前提要看对方值不值。如果遇到骄横野蛮,不识好歹的女人,就另当别论了。</span></div>
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所以姑娘们可要注意了。吵完后最容易看出一个男人的品性。 <br style="box-sizing: border-box;" />男人们也要记住。跟女朋友吵架能赢的,最后都单身了....</h2>
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